Understanding Healthcare Directives Part 3

Hi there,

Welcome back to “Your Canadian Senior Moment”! In our previous two parts, we’ve explored what Healthcare Directives are and why they are so vital for maintaining your autonomy. Today, in Part 3, we’ll focus on the most important step: how to actually create, properly share, and regularly review your own Healthcare Directive. This is where the planning truly turns into peace of mind.

Creating your Healthcare Directive involves thoughtful reflection and open communication:

1. Reflect and Discuss:

   • Personal Reflection: Take time to deeply consider your values, your definition of quality of life, and what medical interventions you would or would not want in various scenarios. This is about your terms.

   • Talk to Trusted Loved Ones: Have open, honest conversations with your chosen Substitute Decision Maker(s) (SDM) and other close family members. Ensure they truly understand your wishes and values, as they will be your voice.

   • Talk to Your Doctor: Discuss your current health status, potential prognoses, and the implications of different medical treatments. Your doctor can provide clarity on medical options and help you make informed decisions.

2. Utilize Provincial Resources:

   • Many provincial health authorities and non-profit organizations (like hospice societies or legal aid) offer free guides, workbooks, or forms specifically designed for Advance Care Planning in your province. These are excellent starting points and can help you organize your thoughts and wishes.

3. CONSULT A LAWYER (Highly Recommended):

   • While some provincial forms can be completed without legal assistance, it is strongly recommended to consult a lawyer specializing in Wills and Estates or Elder Law. A lawyer will ensure your document is legally valid and enforceable in your specific province, accurately reflects your complex wishes, and aligns with any other estate planning documents you have (like a Power of Attorney for Personal Care). Their expertise can prevent future challenges or misinterpretations.

4. Communicate and Share:

   • Once your Healthcare Directive is completed and legally signed, it’s crucial to provide copies to your Substitute Decision Maker(s), your closest family members, and your doctor.

   • Ensure a copy is placed in your medical file at your doctor’s office and at any hospital you might frequent.

   • Keep the original document in a safe, yet easily accessible place at home (not a safety deposit box that might be difficult to access quickly in an emergency).

5. Review and Update Regularly:

   • Your wishes, health status, and relationships can change over time. Make it a practice to review your directive every 3-5 years, or after any significant life event (e.g., a new diagnosis, a major change in your health, a death in the family, or a change in your chosen SDM). Always destroy old copies when you update it to prevent confusion.

Creating a Healthcare Directive is more than just paperwork; it’s a profound act of love and responsibility. It provides clarity, reduces stress during a crisis, and truly ensures your voice remains sovereign in your medical care. Take this vital step to ensure your Canadian Senior Moments are lived and completed on your terms.

Your Daily Quick Tip: Accessibility is Key!

After signing your Healthcare Directive, make sure your Substitute Decision Maker(s) and trusted family members know exactly where the original document is stored and how to access it quickly in an emergency. Consider keeping a small note in your wallet or on your fridge indicating that you have a directive and who your SDM is.

Our Shared Wisdom: A Gift of Serenity

Think about the profound sense of serenity that comes from knowing you’ve taken control of your future healthcare decisions. How does it feel to know you’ve given this clarity and peace of mind to both yourself and your loved ones? What’s one small step you can take today towards creating or reviewing your own directive?

Keep the Conversation Going!

We’ve covered a lot in this series! What part of creating a Healthcare Directive do you find most important, or perhaps most challenging? Share your thoughts in the comments below – your experiences can truly help inspire and guide others in our Canadian Senior Moment community.

(Please remember: We are not legal or medical professionals. The information above is for educational purposes only. For personalized legal advice regarding Healthcare Directives or any medical decisions, consult a qualified, licensed lawyer or healthcare provider in your province.)

Warmly,
Bill & Marilyn
Founders of Canadian Senior Moment